Good friends bring up hard conversations
Good friends bring up hard conversations, even if it's unpleasant.
If you see a bad habit a close friend is doing, it might be worth the difficult conversation to bring it up, because no one else will.
Often times they don’t KNOW they’re doing it, and someone telling them might be first step to solving it.
I've learned a few things when approaching this:
I’ve learned to first “ask” if someone wants feedback first. Only if they accept do I give it.
I also have learned to use the "Compliment Sandwich" where you start the conversation off with saying you love the person, and that's why you're bringing up this issue. Then you tell them the issue. Then you remind them that you are there to help with it.
In the past I've simply told people out of the blue, "YOU TALK TOO MUCH AND IT'S ANNOYING" and it can come off very abrupt and rude or like an attack 😬
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A simple, hand-drawn face with blonde hair and a contemplative expression, suggesting someone deep in thought or pondering a serious topic.
Positive Aspects
The image effectively complements the theme of the post by visually representing the reflective and potentially awkward nature of hard conversations. Its simplicity keeps the focus on the message without distraction.
Key Takeaways
- Good friends aren't afraid to address difficult topics for the well-being of their friends.
- Asking for permission before giving feedback can lead to a more receptive conversation.
- Using the "Compliment Sandwich" technique can soften the delivery of tough feedback.
- Abrupt feedback can feel like an attack, so it's important to approach with care and empathy.
Additional Insights
Addressing a friend's bad habit can feel like walking on eggshells, but it's often an act of genuine care. Think of it like spinach in your teeth—embarrassing but better when someone points it out! Remember, it's about helping them grow, not tearing them down.
