I was listening to the @heydannymiranda podcast and the guest @justinkan listed out 6 "Relationship Filters" for finding a partner I've never heard. I thought these were very cool and helpful:
These are taken from my Apple Notes doc (so it's verbatim):
Relationship filters from Justin kan:
Filter 1: Is this person attractive?
Filter 2: Do I want to spend time with this person?
Filter 3: Does this person fit in with my friends and social groups and family.
Filter 4: Do we have compatible life goals and lives.
Filter 5: Is this person gonna be a good partner to build a family.
Filter 6: If we grow in our lives will we still be compatible.
Each of the next filters rarely have anything in common, so it’s hard to pass all filters.
Image Description
The image lists six relationship filters in bold text on a black background, emphasizing key questions to consider when evaluating a potential partner.
Positive Aspects
The image effectively highlights the six relationship filters in a clear and visually appealing way. The bold text makes the filters stand out, ensuring they are easily digestible and memorable for the reader.
Key Takeaways
- Attractiveness and Compatibility: Initial attraction and long-term compatibility are crucial in evaluating a partner.
- Social and Lifestyle Fit: A partner should fit well with your social circles and share compatible life goals.
- Family and Growth Potential: Consider if the person would be a good family partner and if you can grow together over time.
Additional Insights
These filters are a great checklist for anyone serious about finding a meaningful relationship. Think of them as stages in a video game—you might not pass all levels with every partner, but they help you gauge who’s worth leveling up with. Consider these filters like trying on clothes: not every item will fit perfectly, but when you find the right one, you just know!
